Is Consensual Non-Monogamy The Future of Love?For generations, we’ve been told that a successful romantic life involves one person, one relationship, forever.Jun 24A response icon7Jun 24A response icon7
Modern Men and the Death of Curiosity: Why Women Are Opting OutI’m not asking for forever. Just someone real — curious, kind, emotionally present. But if you’re dating men right now, you already know…Jun 16A response icon3Jun 16A response icon3
When Desire Has a Color: My Journey Toward Unapologetic LoveWe’re living in a paradoxical moment — on one hand, America’s deep racial wounds are being dragged into the light again. On the other…Jun 3A response icon1Jun 3A response icon1
What Happens When A White Woman Chooses a Black ManEvery time I mention — even casually — that I love Black men, I brace myself, not for confusion or curiosity, but for the heat of white…May 31A response icon17May 31A response icon17
When Liberation Becomes Loneliness: A Non-Monogamous Woman’s Wake-Up CallMay 27A response icon9May 27A response icon9
When Hatred Masquerades as Desire: Incel Ideology and the Growing Disconnect Between Men and WomenA growing number of men aren’t looking for love — they’re seeking revenge. As hostility becomes the norm, women ask: is disengagement the…May 1A response icon1May 1A response icon1
The Disenchantment of Online Dating: Why Women Are Opting OutLet’s be honest: if you’re a woman on a dating app, chances are you’ve had this thought — Is this seriously what dating has become?Apr 4A response icon3Apr 4A response icon3
Hope Is Not Lost: Real Signs of Progress in a Post-Trump AmericaIf you are like almost everybody in America right now, you have been stressed, worried, uncertain, and anxious since the election.Apr 3A response icon1Apr 3A response icon1
More Than Sex: The MOST Important Benefit of CNMThere seems to be a common belief that couples opt into CNM because one person or the other needs more sex. This can be a significant…Jan 27A response icon11Jan 27A response icon11
New Topic: Surviving TrumpThis is off-topic for my sex-oriented blog, but frankly, I cannot summon sexy thoughts no matter what I do at present. I felt like survival…Jan 25A response icon1Jan 25A response icon1